Most of the time people love their things, material stuff, like cars, cameras etc. and they take care of those things even they do not like it sharing with others. Taking care of one’s stuff is a good thing, but we need to get our priorities right, these things are means to an end, not an end in themselves. These things are made for us, we are not made for them.

So we should not love material things but use them, and similarly, we should love other people, instead of using them, not vice versa.