Are you a psychiatrist? How come first judgment could become a life time recognition? I have several personal experience where people inspire me on the first meeting but on very second meeting when I get a chance to have a little long discussion with them, they disappoint me.

Yes your age and exposure give you experience to judge people fast, but on the very first meeting, it is just the appearance that you see, and a person is not always how it looks like. Organizations are also moving forward to this phrase of ‘first impression is the last impression’ so they took many interviews before hiring to take second and third impression as well.

Just a thought came after meeting someone who impressed me in his first meeting. It often happens with me in my educational period where teacher impresses me on first lecture but on second lecture when we start studying, we realize that teacher knows less than us. Don’t make a bad decision about anyone on first meeting, give them a second chance.