I believe this personal blog of mine will be a good connection with friends and people who want to know about me. I’m not connecting with friends through facebook any more after the ‘Draw Day’ incident. Facebook is biased where they remove such things which are related to hurt Jews hearts but not such things which are hurting Muslim’s hearts. Then why should we Muslims use such thing.

People who want to connect with me can add me in their twitter login and secondly can subscribe here to my blog where I’ll try to write more often now. So let me see where I left about my life updates. Last year I got married and left my job.

1. Join kirayadaar.com

2. Start constructing house, which is complete and On Sale

3. Had a baby boy in March, this year. His name is Muhammad Osaid

4. Start a property office in Johar Town

5. My travel blog eatntravel.pk won Award of ‘Best Travel Category Blog’ arranged by Google Pakistan and CIO Pakistan.

5. Register a new IT blog gadgetstud.com. Haven’t written anything yet, starting soon

People like familiarity, familiarity with people, with colleagues, with systems, with softwares. I’ve started using Microsoft Word for some years. They updated it but didn’t change it completely that I need to found the tools in newer version. But now in 2007 they have changed the complete look. Though this new look is very good but I didn’t find ‘Save As’ option in it. I don’t mean that we should not update our systems, but make sure that it should be easier. I might talking about this change as good because I’m in a phase to accept changes. Whereas older people don’t like much changes and they wanted to stick with the system they understand completely. For new thing they have to learn again, and old people don’t like learning at that time.

Today when I logged in to my facebook account, I see it totally different, I was little confused. But there was a message which was telling me that there is a change in your outlook. Now you can see your notifications at the left top. There are three buttons after facebook in which the right most is of notifications. Secondly your online friends will be shown in left side bar at the bottom so you can easily see your online friends and click on them to chat. Thirdly on right top you’ll find your logout bar which also has ‘Home’ button which I often use. That was a good training message for even those who didn’t like changes. Find below the new look of facebook’s main page.

Tell me did you like it? How much? and why?

I got this email from my elder bro, those can understand who are married.

Commandment 1.

Marriages are made in heaven. But so again, are thunder and lightning.

Commandment 2.

If you want your spouse to listen and pay strict attention to every word you say, talk in your sleep.

Commandment 3.

Marriage is grand — and divorce is at least 100 grand!

Commandment 4.

Married life is very frustrating. In the first year of marriage, the man speaks and the woman listens. In the second year, the woman speaks and the man listens. In the third year, they both speak and the neighbors listen.

Commandment 5.

When a man opens the door of his car for his wife, you can be sure of one thing: Either the car is new or the wife is.

Commandment 6.

Marriage is when a man and woman become as one; the trouble starts when they try to decide which one.

Commandment 7.

Before marriage, a man will lie awake all night thinking about something you said. After marriage, he will fall asleep before you finish talking.

Commandment 8.

Every man wants a wife who is beautiful, understanding, economical, and a good cook. But the law allows only one wife.

Commandment 9.

Every woman wants a man who is handsome, understanding, economical and a considerate lover, but again, the law allows only one husband.

Commandment 10.

Man is incomplete until he marries. After that, he is finished.

Farm Ville has become very famous application of facebook these days and our Pakistani youngsters are taking keen interest in it. Nowadays almost everyone plays Farm Ville in which you have to set a farm and grow fields, trees and have animals. It is a ‘good wastage’ of precious time if you have nothing to do. Otherwise it is a precious wastage of good time if you have other things to do. So today I quit playing it anymore and use my all coins so that I won’t think of playing it again.

When I play that game I daily use internet but didn’t write a single post here on my blog or on my other blogs. Now when I’ll nothing to do then of course try to update my blogs daily. Right now I’m feeling damn bore at the moment, and when I feel bore, I feel hungry, so I have to go to have something to eat. Lets see if I find something to do…

Change.
But start slowly, because direction is more important than speed. (Anonymous)

I am an intellectual, I understand things easily, I figure out the best way of doing work, I have a sharp mind, I have great ideas; some are implemented, some are in line and most importantly I know that actions are the most important thing to bring change.
But you can’t perform actions just by knowing that they are important, it is something which come by taking step, you have to DO IT not just ‘think that how to do it’ JUST DO IT or otherwise you are not moving forward.
Throughout my blog I write on actions and I don’t remain consistent. I’m good to achieve long term goals but I miss short term goals which can lead me to my long term goals earlier.
Is this happens with everyone or is it only me who is missing actions…

I copy / paste those quotes which I like very much. I started to publish one here daily but then my blog become the ‘quote of the day blog’ so I stop it. Today I was passing through all those quotes and each one is great. I think to publish them all in a single post but this will lessen down the value of all of them, so I’ll keep publishing them time by time.
Here have one by Paulo Coelho “Man improves himself as he follows his path; if he stands still,waiting to improve before he makes a decision,he’ll never move.”

I was trying to revive myself this Ramadan which I fail in first 20 days so I decided to go in certain group of people which would talk about the life after death more than this life. I thought of Etekaaf or preaching, so I went for preaching at last and it was a wonderful experience.
Then after coming back home it become difficult to come to this worldly world so I take a week off from everywhere and enjoyed Eid with my family. Afterward I’ve started my construction project which takes my whole day. As I stayed whole day away from computer and internet so I didn’t check my emails or update any posts anywhere.
Starting is always tough but I’ve pass through it, construction work is in progress and now I’m trying to take some time out to share my words.

Real success in this life is to follow the path of personal legend whether you fail in it. What a life if you don’t have any mission in it.

Have this quote for motivation: “If you haven’t found anything you are willing to die for, you aren’t fit to live.” (Martin Luther King, Jr.)

It was my birthday yesterday and I plan to give one year resolutions. Then I’ll check at next birthday that how much I fulfilled.

Resolutions:

1. Read and understand Quran (Koran) Majeed with translation.
2. Read Sahih Hadith and act accordingly. (Try to become a True Muslim)
3. Start a school at beginning of academic year. A school where give children will get knowledge of Islam and world together.
4. Construct at least two houses to sell. One will begin within two weeks INSHALLAH.
5. Take daily unique visitors of http://eatntravel.pk to four figures.
6. Buy a car

That’s it. Let’s start working, now my new tag line is “Action speaks louder than words”